For Em, Katie Bug, and EG...
Basic Fudgy-Soul-soothing-De-stresser-Contemplating Chocolate Cake
Adjust times and temps as needed for your oven
2-8” round silicone pans
Play this song during preparation:
“The Chocolate Cake Song” by Wes Fowler
2 C milk
2 TBLS vinegar
LET SIT FOR 5 MINUTES (MAKES BUTTERMILK)
1 ½ C oil
4 eggs
2 C brown sugar
1 C granulated sugar
MIX
2 C plain sifted flour
1 ½ C unsweetened cocoa powder
2 TBLS baking powder
2 tsp salt
MIX
BAKE @ 325 degrees until edges are browned but not hard about 30 +/- minutes

When the cake cools, cut a big slice. Find a deep comfy chair. Turn on more good music. Relax. Contemplate. Remember the special times in your life you spent with family.
This is a series of stories, etc. I'm writing, because my older granddaughters gave me a journal years ago, and I've neglected writing in it. Recently I asked the oldest Emily if I should just write about the good. She said they want it all - the good, the bad, and the ugly. This blog will become that neglected journal.